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Tuesday, November 29, 2011


Fiction or Fact car salesman take advantage of Single Women when buying a car? Well to answer that question I think there are four important factors to consider.

One remember living SINGLE is a STATUS not a disease and certainly no reason to be a victim.
Two a consumer should be educated on all products they are purchasing especially BIG TICKET items such as an automobile.
Three only buy from a reputable and long established car dealer.
Four you have a choice when working with a salesperson. This being the case choose an auto salesperson such as Sharen King of Performance Honda located in Fairfield Ohio just minutes away from Cincinnati,  West Chester,  Hamilton, Forest Park and Springdale.  
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Sharen is not only a Honda Specialist she prides herself in providing excellent customer service coupled with product knowledge. She is able to assist you in the area of new and pre-owned vehicles as  Performance Honda has a large selection of pre-owned (used cars) for sale on the same lot.

There is no need to be scared as a single, or married woman when it is time to purchase a car. Simply call on a professional who takes pride in assisting each customer with attaining the car they desire.  Call Sharen King 513.829.7300 for your appointment or if you have a question concerning the purchase of a car.  

Performance Honda located 5760 Dixie Highway (45014) recognizes the needs of their customers that may have experienced an interruption in employment, medical bills, foreclosure or other hurdles that many Americans or facing. Performance Honda now has a Special Financing Department with Dave Grathwol as Special Finance Manager.  Dave has over 29 years in the automobile industry in areas from sales, to management and prides himself on getting the customer financed that may have had some hurdles and interruptions in the life of their credit history.  

So fact and the truth of the matter is living Single is a Status not a  disease and when you want to purchase a car either in person, via internet call on the Auto Specialist Sharen King of Performance Honda and she will be thrilled to assist you find just the right car for you.    513.829.7300
Remember to ask for Sharen direct number 480.225.7292

Friday, November 18, 2011

             Mobile Phone Etiquette When Dating: Dinner Date
dating report has revealed some top tips and advice with regards to mobile phone etiquette. The survey recommends that a dinner date is for the two persons involved only and to not let modern technology get in the way when dining. It is advised that Brits need to call their potential partner to arrange the date as opposed to text message; and to plan the date details in advance by talking over the phone.

A top tip if you are expecting a call in the middle of the date is to warn the other person in advance and explain how important it is to respond immediately. This doesn’t mean that you can answer a text message about the latest football scores but rather answer a call from the work boss. When the call does occur, politely apologise and excuse yourself from the table; don’t just carry on sitting there and talk away as it will make the date feel extremely awkward. However, make sure the call is quick as they won’t sit around and wait for you forever.
Technology when dating is paramount as it can be the stepping stone to search for your soul mate by using free online dating sites. But after finding a loved-one, the tools stop there and you should leave your phone in your pocket when eating scrumptious food in a lovely restaurant on a special rendezvous. Even if your date has their phone out on the table that doesn’t mean you can too. And when they leave to go to the bathroom it doesn’t mean you can start updating your status on Facebook or checking the news feed on Twitter.
Focus your complete attention on your first date and under no circumstances should you take a picture of them eating and upload it to social networking sites. What is more, don’t send them a Facebook friend request just yet as it is far too early and try not to tag them on the date in your Facebook places or Foursquare. Moreover, avoid blogging about the date if you know they can see it even if you only have positive things to say. So follow these great instructions when on a dinner date but first and foremost, find your partner at
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Wednesday, October 5, 2011

            Single and Scared 'Time is Running Out"
       I'm also scared of being single until I'm old. 

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These are the questions both men and women ask me daily~

Time waits for no one and with this being the case “How are you living?”  Are you living your best life now in all areas?  If not what are you doing to bring about change?  So often as a single (parent or otherwise) person the thought of finite is not a thought at all. In most cases this is where the term retrospect would come into place. However retrospect to me indicates a past that cannot be changed.  The past is to be learned from certainly, to resonant in what has passed never.

No I would want for myself and for you to aspire daily to soar higher, run faster, think smarter, laugh louder, cry harder, breath deeper, love fully first you and then others.

At least then when you look back you can say, “well I gave it my best.” For tomorrow is not promised today is a gift and the past is just that a point in space and time that will never come back. 

Recently I spoke at a function in Washington D.C to Single Parents of youth and teens on the subject of teen violence, the adverse affects of sexting and the serious repercussions of bullying in school and at home.  For some peculiar reason the media and academia tend to classify Single Parenthood as a catch all for kids that will have bad behavior and inevitably become a statistic involving law enforcement intervention. Unfortunately it is not that simple.  Thank goodness….!

Life is never that simple yet we can make simple changes to our lives that will enable us to live better lives.

I am of the belief that the earth is moving faster on its axis and thus the days are shorter.  Which in turns allows for us to rush around scramming a 24 hour a day life in a 20-hour time span.  This is not to excuse any one persona single or otherwise for not living your best life now. Quite the contrary knowledge is key.

However it is what you do with your knowledge that matters most. Prime example three men were awarded the Nobel Peace Prize for accelerated expansion of the Universe (read below) which means in short the earth will freeze.  Does this give validity to Global Warming?  I don’t know!  What I do know is that I will not live to see that day but I am living today. Daily as a Single our paths are just a little different than those of a married person…but remember living Single is a status not a disease. Living Single, happy healthy and in balance is within your control unlike accelerated expansion.  Start today and if you need assistance in the areas of Life Coaching of Business Marketing call or e-mail me today.

Remember tomorrow will come if you are lucky or blessed but today is here for you now.   

The Nobel Prize in Physics 2011

Saul Perlmutter
Brian P. Schmidt
Adam G. Riess

The Nobel Prize in Physics 2011 was awarded "for the discovery of the accelerating expansion of the Universe through observations of distant supernovae" with one half to Saul Perlmutter and the other half jointly to Brian P. Schmidt and Adam G. Riess.

They found that the light emitted by more than 50 distant supernovas was weaker than expected, a sign that the universe was expanding at an accelerating rate, the academy said.
"For almost a century the universe has been known to be expanding as a consequence of the Big Bang about 14 billion years ago," the citation said. "However the discovery that this expansion is accelerating is astounding. If the expansion will continue to speed up the universe will end in ice."
Perlmutter, 52, heads the Supernova Cosmology Project at the Lawrence Berkeley National Laboratory and University of California, Berkeley.
Schmidt, 44, is the head of the High-z Supernova Search Team at the Australian National University in Weston Creek, Australia.
Riess, 41, is an astronomy professor at Johns Hopkins University and Space Telescope Science Institute in Baltimore, Maryland.
Schmidt said he was just sitting down to have dinner with his family in Canberra, Australia, when the phone call came.
"I was somewhat suspicious when the Swedish voice came on," Schmidt told The Associated Press. "My knees sort of went weak and I had to walk around and sort my senses out."
The academy said the three researchers were stunned by their own discoveries -- they had expected to find that the expansion of the universe was slowing down. But both teams reached the opposite conclusion: faraway galaxies were racing away from each other at an ever-increasing speed.
The discovery was "the biggest shakeup in physics, in my opinion, in the last 30 years," said Phillip Schewe, a physicist and spokesman at the Joint Quantum Institute, which is operated by the University of Maryland and the federal government.
"I remember everyone thinking at the time (that) there was some mistake," Schewe said. But there was no mistake, and in fact the basic finding was confirmed later by other measurements. Other scientists found evidence for it when they analyzed the microwave radiation left over from the big bang that still bathes the universe, he said.
Perlmutter told AP his team made the discovery in steps, analyzing the data and assuming it was wrong.
"And after months, you finally believe it," he said. "It's not quite a surprise anymore. I tell people it's the longest "ah-ha" experience that you've ever had."
An accelerating universe means it will get increasingly colder as matter is spread out across ever-vaster distances in space, said Lars Bergstrom, secretary of the Nobel physics committee. The acceleration is believed to be driven by an unknown cosmic power, called dark energy, one of the great mysteries of the universe.
Fred Dylla, executive director of the American Institute of Physics, said the prize confirmed an idea from Albert Einstein, called the cosmological constant, that Einstein inserted in his general theory of relativity, a cornerstone of modern physics.
Einstein later repudiated that idea as his "biggest blunder," but it did lead to a lot of theoretical and experimental studies, Dylla said.
The research implies that billions of years from now, the universe will become "a very, very large, but very cold and lonely place," said Charles Blue, spokesman for the American Institute of Physics.
In contrast to the big bang, that fate has been called the "big rip" to indicate how galaxies would be torn apart, he said. Galaxies will be flying away so quickly that their light could not travel across the universe to distant observers as it does today, making the sky appear black, he said.
The Nobel committee's comment that the universe would "end in ice" is "an eloquent way of putting it," Blue said.
The physics prize was the second Nobel to be announced this year. On Monday the medicine prize went to American Bruce Beutler and French scientist Jules Hoffmann who shared it with Canadian-born Ralph Steinman for their discoveries about the immune system. Steinman died three days before the announcement, but since his death was not known to the committee, they decided he should keep the Nobel. Since 1974, Nobels have been awarded only to living scientists.
The prestigious Nobel Prizes were established in the will of Swedish industrialist Alfred Nobel, and have been handed out since 1901.
Last year's physics award went to Russian-born scientists Andre Geim and Konstantin Novoselov for groundbreaking experiments with graphene, the strongest and thinnest material known to mankind.
The prizes are handed out every year on Dec. 10, on the anniversary of Nobel's death in 1896.

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Tuesday, September 27, 2011

Number One Tip  (#1) For A Successful First Date

Number one thing to remember about a First Date is you never get a second chance to make a first impression.  If you are single and scared, scared because you are newly divorced or just plain sick and scared of another first date. Take a moment and remember this is not your first pony ride and what does not kill you will only work to embarrass you, improve you or keep you from making the same mistakes twice.

I recently read an article in Askmen written by Heidi Muller,  that stated (and I paraphrase) a good first date would be at a COMEDY CLUB.  Okay the thought that a first date should be at or anywhere near a Comedy Club is an hilarious thought. I guess if you have no intention of talking and getting to know your date it is the perfect venue. Oh wait make sure to get a seat up front so that the comedian can heckle you for being foolish enough for being on a first date at a COMEDY CLUB.

In addition to reading the article in I recently read an article in UK's The Sun about an English woman beautician Annette Baylin, 43 from Hainault, Essex 1 year diary on dating after her divorce in 2009. She too was scared of dating after she was newly divorced with two kids. Interesting but typical except she believes she has possibly met her mate (no pun intended but if the colloquial slang works) an American man named Alex, who she met online. A site titled oddly enough I Love Your Accent.  Wether you love it or hate the notion of online dating you have to admit there is a web-site for everything and everyone. Over approximate 10 months she has met Alex twice for dinner in London an American bloke  ---oh never mind you need to read this story for yourself please click on and read and by all means make up your own mind.

The one constant thread of both articles in that each person in their own way is 'Keeping Hope Alive' in the areas of finding Love.  But...and I say 'But' I always thought Love was supposed to find you.

Is there such a thing as First Date Etiquette that guarantees a SUCCESSFUL DATE?  There is no easy answer I can say it depends on the two individuals.      
My advise is to stick to what works 1 Corinthians 13:4-8a Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always  perseveres. Love never fails.                                   

Tuesday, September 20, 2011

The Jill's Steals and Deals segment contains great deals offered by retailers to TODAY viewers.
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Set of three bras from Best Bra
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Best Bra is offering their Basic Set at a deep discount to TODAY viewers. It includes three bras, one each in the colors black, white and nude. They are offering it in six sizes: XS-S, M, L, XL, 2XL and 3XL. "The stretch fabric and design make this the most comfortable bra you'll ever wear, all while giving you flattering shape and lift," the company writes.
The product could take up to four weeks for delivery and cost $6.95 in shipping for the first set purchased and $4.95 for additional sets. For more information and to buy the $60 bra package for $12.95, click here.

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Terzetto is offering two styles of their 100 percent genuine leather handbags at deep discounts for TODAY viewers: The textured style comes in black, brown and blue; the snake-skin etched style comes in white, gray, rust and gold. The bags include a detachable strap, textured trim, cushion handles, a spacious inside and a zipper pocket on the outside and inside.
The bags could take up to three weeks to arrive at a shipping cost of $14.95. For more information and to buy the $425 handbags for $65, click here.

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Lisa Stewart personalized leather bracelets
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Promo code: TODAYLISA
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Lisa Stewart is offering their cuff bracelets at deep discounts, with the option to personalize the item with any letter of the alphabet. It comes with three snap sizes for small, medium and large wrists. You can choose from a brown or black leather band.
Products could take up to four weeks to arrive with a shipping cost of $10 for the first item and $5 for each additional item. For more information and to buy the $125 bracelets for $25, click here.

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Kenneth Cole Reaction Women's Down Filled Jacket with Faux Fur Hood
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Percent discount: Up to 70% off!
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Kenneth Cole is offering their Reaction Women's Down Filled Jacket with Faux Fur Hood at a deep discount for TODAY viewers. The company is offering it in four colors: black, olive green, red and beige.
The jacket could take up to 10 days to arrive with a shipping cost of $12.95. For more information and to buy the $220 coat for $65, click here.

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Kenneth Cole
Kenneth Cole New York Women's Wool Peacoat
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Percent discount: Up to 68% off!
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Kenneth Cole is offering their New York Women's Wool Peacoat at a deep discount for TODAY viewers.
The company is offering it in four colors: black, garnet, grey and creme.
The jacket could take up to 10 days to arrive with a shipping cost of $12.95.
For more information and to buy the $250 peacoat for $79, click here.

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