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Tuesday, March 29, 2011

Business Networking Event @ The Mynt

Opening day is just days away for the Cincinnati Red Legs just in time for more cold burrr snow. We have seen worse on opening day and the tri-state will survive as we march madness our way to the World Series we hope.

However remember just one week later is the first Business Happy Hour Networking Event @ THE MYNT LOUNGE Cincinnati...a wonderful new addition to the downtown bar and restaurant scene conveniently located on Fountain Square between Walnut and Vine.
                                          April 6th Wednesday
                                          5 pm - 8 pm

Entry $25 at door advance purchase $20 incl 2 drinks and appetizers with give-aways
call  or e-mail for tickets or further information  480.225.7292 or 513.373.5927
                                                  

Thursday, March 24, 2011

SINGLE MNGLE @ AT The Mynt

Single needs networking too. Are networking events just an excuse to flirt, exchange ideas laugh and have fun. Well I certainly hope so and please make sure to count me in.  One constant complaint I hear is I want to meet someone who is professional. A man/woman that has a career. Well Cincinnati tri-state singles here is your opportunity. April 6th @ The Mynt 5pm-8pm located on Fountain Square you have your opportunity to have drink, meet and greet single men and women professionals. No excuses just be there.  Tickets are $25.00 which entitles you to two drink coupons/ appetizers.  If you purchase your tickets early you of course get a discount of $5.00. If you have questions as usual call or e-mail me. sk@scaredsingle.com
                            CALLING ALL SINGLES MEN AND WOMEN 

Monday, March 14, 2011

MANNERS ARE ALIVE AND IN BLOOM IN SINGLEDOM

There was a point in the world of Singledom (for those of you unfamiliar with the particulars of SINGLEDOM, it is all that occurs in the world of being single) in a land of yesteryear when it was customary for a man to present flowers to the girl/woman he would call on for a date. Todays lingo if a guy asked you out he would almost always show up at your door with a gift of flowers. He would present to his date a bouquet or corsage of flowers. Yes that was yesteryear or was it?

I had a first date with a fella this past weekend and not only did he wear a jacket he presented me with a lovely bouquet of pink Stargazers (coincidentally white Stargazers are my favorite flower). So for the ladies who are constantly telling me that there are no single men with manners walking, breathing and talking who have a career is devoted to family and friends who also appreciates women again I tell you wrong. There is a least one and his name is Chris, smile! As a bonus he is a guy that wants to find a woman who appreciates him and wants to make a life as a couple leading to marriage. He is not living scared single afraid of getting married. He has been married once and is a divorced man dating.  Women you must remember it can be a scary situation for a man to ask you out for a date. This being said to the women who want to get married do not live your life single and scared and berating men be open and available to the possibilities.
Let me know your wants, desires and needs. Maybe Chris could be your mate if not I am firm believer in YOU DO YOU and do it well and all the good you deserve will be yours for the asking.
If you have not received flowers of late or goodness gracious if you have never received flowers allow me today to present you with a gift of flowers in bloom.
DON'T forget if you are in need of Relationship Realty or Life Coaching preview my LifeStyle Coaching site  www.sharenking.com. To date I count 5 engagements and 3 marriages from previous clients.  If you need to define your Life Game Plan call or e-mail me now and begin living your best life now!
Until then enjoy the flowers...

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Friday, March 11, 2011

Friendship Bond, Different for Women than Men?

I am often asked, do women and men love differently?  To many that may sound like a peculiar question?  There is a simple and two part answer to this question,  Yes and I am glad that they do.  The question answered I make reference to the foundation of friendship.  We value and classify friendship differently so therefore we love differently.  I do not think that a man sick in bed as I am today would take this down time to compose a card to his best male friends just to let them know he values them.  Especially choosing a Whitney Houston song from the soundtrack and movie, ' How Stella Got Her Groove Back' from a Smilebox Creation.  LOL!
The key to Living Single happy, focused with balance and not scared of being single or afraid that I will always be single is knowing your value and surrounding yourself with friends and family that understand the importance of value in their own lives.  My mother Alice had a knack for instilling value in my brothers and myself as well as  others through her words and actions.  When I was young there was a plague that hung in our orange yellow and green kitchen...yes I know it was the 70's.  It read 'make your family your friends and your friends your family.'  Another lesson that has stayed with me from childhood as corny as it may sound was from my years as a Brownie. For those of you who do not know is a junior Girl Scout. One of our mottos as a Brownie was 'Make New Friends but Keep the Old Some are Silver and the Other is Gold or something like that.  I know I know but I have this embedded like HTML code in my brain, heart and soul.
This being the case how could I decide to date, marry or settle for a man who has no connection to these small stepping stones from my childhood that weave together to make me who I am good or bad.  So I choose to be Scared Single but not Afraid.  Meaning smart enough to be scared giving way to caution but not living in Fear thus I am not Afraid!  Better to be Scared Single than married and unhappy awaiting divorce.
So yes women like, love value friendship differently not necessarily better just differently.  You can count on your girlfriends for a bevy of benefits however when it comes time to move furniture you had better  call on your male friends.  Unless of course you are Blessed enough to have friends like mine. Shot out to April Jean and Gigi..always faithful always there.


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Thursday, March 10, 2011

WHEN YOU FIND YOUR PRINCE/PRINCESS R U IN UR BEST SHAPE PHYSICALLY, EMOTIONALLY AND MENTALLY


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There variety for dating other singles that are also involved with
physical fitness is never ending such as men who want to date
Single female bodybuilders.  The site features websites,
competitions and all things related to dating single female
bodybuilders.  Date Single Female Bodybuilders.  Can you say
there is something for everyone?   I would venture to guess that this
 is not a site for men that are single and scared of dating. Maybe
it is prerequisite for men that are scared in general and seek a
single female partner to protect them. Thus it would be Scared Single
 and afraid not to date.  Whatever your status if you are a male or
female with a need to meet a single male or female as a fitness
partner there are options available to you.  * As always a word of
CAUTION  when utilizing the internet for any reason error on
the side of CAUTION* Never send money or divulge any
personal information!

Wednesday, March 9, 2011

Lent Sacrifice and Satan What Is Your Satan as a Single Person


The First day of Lent
 Conventionally, it is described as being forty days long, though different denominations calculate the forty days differently. The forty days represent the time that, according to the Bible, Jesus spent in the desert before the beginning of his public ministry, where he endured temptation by Satan.  wikipedia

So in your life what is your Satan? What is your temptation to destruction? No I am not referring to mortal or immortal sins that is better left to whatever God or confessor you worship and your personal religious belief. I am asking what is your Achilles heel for mishap in your personal single life that continually manifests itself in ways that never elevate you. Well maybe sometime there is a temporary feeling of elation most often associated with a clandestine or short-term feeling of euphoria. 

I have spent many hours listening to the horror stories and handing out Kleenex to men and women that are attracted physically to a mate that is neither good for them emotionally nor mentally.  The end result is always and I mean always the same.  It can be summed up in a line from a Linda Ronstadt song ‘baby it hurts so bad.


My anthem of no not me anymore is a Whitney Houston song 'Why Does It Hurt So Bad'  Without a doubt it is my personal anthem of finding my way back from near devastation and a near death of self due to a horrible Love gone bad relationship. Been there done that and got the t-shirt.  I hope you don think I write these wonderful words of redemption, survival and triumph just for you the reader. Oh No! The road to Hell is littered with broken hearts and bodies of men and women that either had their sense of self destroyed or they exiled themselves to Hell.  But no not me no one but no one can have my joy.
Remember the road to clarity begins with ONE STEP towards living your best life.
   




 So this being the measure of the sacrifice behind Lent what is your sacrifice to living your best life single?  Certainly living life Scared Single as a single parent is not good for you or your children. Teaching your children to live in fear is a sure recipe for failure in life.  Living your life divorced and scared of dating is signing your own death sentence of loneliness.  Let us say for the sake of circumstance you are newly single for whatever reason but you are scared pretending to be happy and not scared of being single but scared of being alone.  You are truly living scared single because until you deal with the reality of the situations you are still just a person living in a bubble of fear.  Thus now you are scared single and scared of living alone.  Which is nothing if not an oxymoron. Don’t you think?

So jumping off my Soapbox I personally am giving up meat for Lent…and being from a mid-west city that was once a major stockyard city giving up meat is indeed a sacrifice.  Just as important I am renewing my VOWS to myself. That while I am Single I am not Alone and certainly not Scared as I have ME, MYSELF and I and of course my GOD for what more do I need as GOD is the bread of life? Need not to be confused with Desire…LOL for man/woman does not live on bread alone. HOLLA!

Friday, March 4, 2011

ROYAL WEDDING COUNTDOWN TO HAPPINESS

For those of us who remember the wedding of Prince Charles to then Diana Spencer a commoner to the waiting King of England will give credence to the fact that it felt, smelled and read like a fairytale that dreams are made of, or so we thought.  It quickly began to unravel to the live-in nightmare that it really was and was played out on tabloids throughout the world.
                                                    

It is a different time if not a different era now and soon the world will watch as the then bright and beautiful young Prince William Arthur Phillip Louis of Wales, born 21 of June that so bravely walked with head bowed behind the casket of his still young and beautiful mother will soon take his own bride, Catherine Elizabeth (Kate) Middletown, born 9 of January 1982 and she will become the new Princess of Wales.                         
                                               

Are you sitting around Scared and Single waiting for your own Prince Charming or should I say Prince William? if you are Scared of being Single but doing nothing about it you will not find and he will not find you.  Love does not just happened it does not say Somewhere out there beneath the pale mooonlight, Someone thinking of me and loving me tonight.  No matter how pretty the songs was song by Linda Ronstadt and James Ingram.  Love does not happen living Scared and Single waiting for fairytales to become reality.         
                                        

If you need an option I have several clients that have found LOVE and HAPPINESS on www.match.com . Yes, it really does and can happen where your status can evolve from Single and Scared to Married and Matted.  Give it a try click the Match.com link on the upper left of this site for your FREE THREE DAY offer. If you need help writing your profile e-mail me as of today I have success rate of 3 marrieds 2 engagements and countless friends and love relationship among my LifeStylist (coaching clients).
One day soon the lovely Kate, talented and working girl will become the QUEEN OF ENGLAND to her KING WILLIAM.  What about you is there a PRINCE in your present?  
RELATIONSHIP REALITY EXPERT sk@scaredsingle.com

Tuesday, March 1, 2011

FACE TO FACE WITH THE EX 4 THE FIRST TIME

TODAY I RECEIVED AN E-MAIL ASKING WHAT DO YOU DO WHEN YOU UN-EXPECTANTLY COME FACE TO FACE WITH AN EX? I FIRST HAD TO ASK WAS THIS A BREAK-UP OF PAIN, PLEASURE OR MUTUAL ACKNOWLEDGEMENT? WHICH IN LATER THOUGHT IF I HAD TAKEN A MOMENT THIS QUESTION WOULD BE UNNECESSARY DUH! WHO NEEDS HELP UNLESS THERE WAS PAIN INVOLVED? IN THIS PARTICULAR CASE IT WAS PAIN TO THE TENTH DEGREE. AFTER HEARING THE PARTICULARS I WAS QUICK TO ACKNOWLEDGE THIS WAS A BREAK-UP THAT IF THE WOMAN HAD NOT  BEEN COMPOSED OF FORTITUDE AND FAITH THE SITUATION WOULD HAVE BROKEN HER VERY SOUL. ULTIMATELY I SHARED WITH HER THAT IN THE SCHEME OF LIFE THE PAIN MAY ACTUALLY FEEL INSURMOUNTABLE UNTIL ONE DAY SHE WILL ARRIVE AT A PLATEU/HILL THAT ALLOWS HER TO SEE A GLIMPSE OF A FUTURE AND SHE LOOKS BACK AND THE IMAGE OF HIM AND THAT PAST LIFE NOT ONLY IS A BLUR IN HER REAR (VIEW) BUT A POTHOLE ON THE ROAD TO HAPPINESS.
YES SHE MAY BE SCARED AND LIVING SINGLE BUT DO NOT BE A AFRAID OF WHAT IS AROUND THE CORNER OR SHE WILL NEVER TAKE A STEP TOWARDS A BETTER YOU. LIVING SINGLE IS NOT A DEATH SENTENCE BUT AN EXCUSE TO DO BETTER ALL BY YOURSELF. WHETHER NEWLY DIVORCED AND SCARED SINGLE OR SINGLE LIVING SCARED OF BEING MARRIED, MAKE A LIFE PLAN BASED ON INDIVIDUAL GOALS AND STICK TO IT. IF YOU NEED ASSISTANCE CALL OR E-MAIL ME AS A LIFE STYLIST AND RELATIONSHIP COACH I TAKE PLEASURE AND PRIDE IN ASSISTING MY CLIENTS DISCOVER THE BEST PARTNER TO HAVE IN ACHIEVING YOUR BEST LIFE WITH PURPOSE AND BALANCE IS THE MAN OR WOMAN IN THE MIRROR.

REMEMBER IF IT WAS EASY TO BE HAPPY, HEALTHY AND BALANCED EVERYBODY WOULD BE DOING IT. THE TRICK IS THERE ARE NO TRICKS TO BEING HAPPY.  WHETHER MARRIED AND MATTED, DIVORCED AND DATING, SCARED AND SINGLE, SINGLE AND SOLO, SEPARATED AND SEEKING! YOU DO YOU!

IF YOU NEED A REMINDER OF HOW GOOD YOUR LIFE IS JUST LOOK AT CHARLIE SHEEN'S LIFE. INSTEAD OF TWO AND HALF MEN THEY SHOULD SIMPLY RE-NAME THE SHOW "IT'S ALL ABOUT ME" UNTIL I COMPLETELY SELF DESTRUCT.